based on quality but also personal enjoyment that may not apply to you. also first i'm going to present a ridiculous amount of honorable mentions

said honorable mentions (i told you. it's long)

    cross-stitch world | pixel art | relaxing | used to play when i was maybe ten. the reason it's here is because you can import your own pictures and cross-stitch them; not only is it satisfying and funny when you pick out your best memes, you can use it as a pattron for crochet. sooo practical.

    dragon mania legends | evolution | some sort of strategy | same here. okay i am biased this game is not even that good, i just had to put it because i loved discovering new kinds of dragons when i was a kid, and raging everytime i had to wait 5 hours to hatch one i already had.

bust up
    milkology's : vitiligo, freckles, moles, elf ears, natural hair & eye colours, hijab, cat & fox ears, devil horns, glasses, some piercings, cool backgrounds.

half-body
    0jilibean0's : vitiligo, freckles, moles, elf & beast ears, lots of facial expressions, some scars, natural hair & eye colours, can have no bangs, lots of hairstyles, hijab, devil horns, angel halo, animal ears, glasses, lots of clothes, lots of accessories, angel & devil wings, animal tails.

full body
    stressedoutrpg's : vitiligo, freckles, elf & beast ears, some scars, facial hair, natural hair & eye colours, can have no bangs, devil horns, bull & stag horns, animal ears, glasses, some piercings, lots of socks, lots of accessories, angel & devil wings, animal tails.

cat
    felidaze_'s : it has everything. there are instructions to guide you, it's just perfect.